Posted by
jgrantswankjr on Sunday, November 15, 2009 9:52:07 AM
J. Grant Swank, Jr.
"I'm going to pick you two up on
Saturday morning at 10. Be ready. Don't ask any questions. Just plan on
it being a whole day's affair."
Bill handed us the invitation.
We waited till Saturday knowing that it would end up to a rare,
treasured gift from a dear friend who cared about making us happy.
Bill knew more nooks and crannies in Southern Maine than anyone else
I know. No doubt that is because he grew up here. So it was that we
would be on our ways, Bill driving of course, to take in scenes we had
never explored before. I was born and grew up in Maryland. Priscilla
was born and grew up in Nova Scotia. Therefore, to be escorted around
this impressive state was indeed a royal treat.
Bill's God was real to him. Therefore, when he saw a mountain that
he filed away in his favorite memory bank, Bill called out to the rest
of us: "Now see that over there? Did you ever take in a scene like that
before in your whole life?? What a God we serve!"
If we did not immediately stop talking, look where he pointed, Bill
refused to be ignored. His invite was repeated in a slightly louder
volume until we got the message. Because we knew Bill was crafting the
day's excursion for our pleasure, we obliged quickly. With that, we
were never disappointed.
Then around the next turn on some far-out country road, Bill pointed out an old barn
that fit into his special memory bank. Or it would be a running brook
or meadow or a roadside where he and Esther had come upon some deer.
There were also those dirt roads where wild turkeys impeded his travel,
such detailed as no hindrance at all. "There were three dozen of them!"
Bill adored God's world. Bill loved to
share God's world with others. He was caught up in the Lord's handiwork
more than anything else that surrounded him. The Creator's nature
offering to mankind was definitely a prime jewel box in Bill's life.
Then when Bill became ill, it was our turn to pick him up for a
Saturday drive to the hinterlands. We never planned the route for we
could never choose that which would match up to Bill's unique agenda.
So while we provided the chauffeuring, Bill charted the course.
I recall driving up Douglas Mountain to an apple orchard. What a
time we had in meeting the new young owners. Bill fell right in line to
specify for them the history of their fresh environs. Then of course we
drove off with some choice apples for eating along the way.
How I miss Bill so very much, particularly during autumn. It was in
this season especially that Bill scouted out the most colorful,
peaceful hideaways. Sometimes we four took a picnic lunch. At other
times Bill knew the restaurant perfect for our noontime meal. He was
always on target.
As his days became more bleak on this turf, his travels outside his home were more precious to him. He was bored inside the house.
So a return gift to Bill was to stop by his place, help him into the
van, and then drive off somewhere. I knew that just getting out of the
house was indeed a boon, let alone the surprises he had already
arranged for our pastimes that day.
Then one day God took Bill home to the Forever Scene. That was a
glorious moment for Bill. But it was a very down time for the rest of
us.
However, it's Thanksgiving again.
And with this year's prayers, I thank God once again for the
memories. They will never fade. And the ones Bill handed me are some of
the richest. One of these moments I will see him again. And when I do,
I will be sure to thank him for sharing his nature thanks to God with
two close friends.